Does your struggle with infertility leave you feeling isolated? Do you ever wish you had someone to whom you could vent about the insensitive thing your mother-in-law said about deserving grandchildren? Or would you like someone who has “been there and done that” to ask for advice about how to talk to your doctor? Wouldn’t it be nice to share updates about your IVF with people who understand, but won’t give you awkward sad stares if it’s unsuccessful? Sometimes it’s just fun to compare what song you’ve adopted as your “Infertility Anthem” with people who share a common experience.
Online support communities can be your lifeline when you need to reach out to people who understand what you are going through.
If you prefer privacy or even anonymity, an online community may be a good option for you. The most popular way to get support from an online community in South Africa, is now via Facebook Group. Try this one: IVF Support.
Community members share their beta results, compare notes about drugs and ask for advice about egg donors, to list just a few examples. This is an informed community seeking support and sharing detailed information, so expect a variety of robust discussions about all aspects of infertility.
Coping in the Internet Age
Online communities are a wonderful resource to help you know that you are not alone in your family building journey. Online communities serve a different purpose than in person support. Nothing can replace face-to-face human interaction with a support group, family building professional or mental heath professional. Medical advice should come from your team of medical professionals.
– Content curtesy of Resolve (adapted)